I believe genuine authority is measured by composure, not volume, and genuine submission is built on trust rather than fantasy. I value disciplined minds, emotional intelligence, and people who understand that consistency is far more attractive than empty confidence. My time is intentional, my expectations are clear, and I invest my energy where mutual respect exists naturally. Fitness is part of my discipline, not my identity. My tattoos reflect chapters of my journey, while my character reflects the standards I choose to uphold every day. I appreciate meaningful conversation, self-awareness, and those who understand that every lasting dynamic begins with communication, accountability, and earned trust. If you're seeking authenticity, structure, and a connection grounded in integrity rather than performance, we'll likely have more to discuss. If you're searching for shortcuts, validation, or someone to entertain uncertainty, we are probably not aligned.
I'd say my adjectives are greeneyed, left handed, introverted, kindhearted, affectionate, sweet. I can be kinda shy at times but if can you break through the shyness then..... 😈! I just want to find someone like me that can keep up!
Bratty bbw goofball that’s learning new things in the community.
100% a sub and like to be restrained, ***d, spanked, and have rough sex. Enjoyed being tied up in ropes the one time I had it happen.
Not looking to be a third and ultimately looking for that one person to call ‘Sir’
yeah this is going to be about me as a person. I get it's a website based on fetishes but that means different things to different people.
✅ coffee = less gremlin
✅ ADHD (there will be times you question reality and feel the need to wrangle, be the supervision, or the accomplice)
✅ stones and bones
✅ spooky stuff
✅ most random playlist you've seen but lots of screamy music too
✅ introvert but I play an extrovert pretty well when I have to until the social battery is no more
✅ communication is important
✅ the more you respect me as a person the more disrespectful consensual things we can do
✅ ⭐ Demisexual and sapio sexual (you have to tickle my mind and heart before you tickle my clit)
✅ love languages: physical touch, Acts of service, shared experiences. yeah and if you haven't done the research on how they can translate to kink have fun with that rabbit hole
✅ books!
don't send unsolicited 🍆 picks, I'll be annoyed, I won't give the response you want, you'll get butt hurt... it's a whole thing 🙄🙄🙄
yes I have pictures. no they're not like that.
I’m looking for someone to discipline me. I want to them to punish me as they see fit. I have goals and obstacles that I need to overcome and I don’t have enough self discipline. I’d like a mentor and mentee like relationship. I’m comfortable with spankings and other punishments. Keep me accountable and on track. I’m not looking for sex or ***. Between my adhd and depression I need someone mentally strong to handle me. Can you handle me?
Just a nerdy, neurospicy, trans, demi, rope bunny looking for romance; and after trust is established, to get tied up. 🪢
Warning: Not interested in unsolicited 🍆 pics.
Aside from that, I enjoy running, reading, going out to eat, staying in with popcorn and a movie/tv show, also cheesy stuff like bowling and mini golf. 🏃♀️➡️
I’m a kung-fu black sash, a classically-trained singer (teaching herself to vocal fry scream), a pretty good cook, and prolly some other things that I forgot. lol ;)
As an Xer, I’m looking to start with traditional dating. So like, going out to eat, getting coffee, doing a cheesy activity… stuff like that. I once had to dump a guy who thought meeting me in a Walmart parking lot while he was in his sweats was a respectable first date. 👀
If you’re a kind, compassionate, trans-supportive, person who enjoys rigging, then I’m the girl for you. 💜
Eternally curious, BBW in central DE. Open-minded, conversant, sarcastic.
i will hold a conversation with anyone interesting, about anything that interests me. feel free to say hello.
I flirt for fun, for sport even. unless i specifically say otherwise, none of my flirty nonsense should be taken seriously.
speaking of fun …
interests … vanilla
- music (i love it all, please tell me about your favorite band/song/album/verse),
- crochet
- museums (especially odd or unique exhibits)
- long drives to nowhere
- learning
- helping others learn
- reading (though not like i used to for pleasure. tell me about your favorite author.)
- coloring (analog and digital)
- conversations about nothing and everything
i am my most happiest inside safe, sometimes rebellious, submission. i am, however, responsible for a lot and control a lot of things. The person who takes control of me has to help me see why they’re better at controlling me than I am.
i can be a jerk, but i’m kinda funny. 🤷🏽♀️.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
98% Rope bunny
95% Submissive
94% Brat
92% Voyeur
88% Little
88% Primal (Prey)
83% Degradee
71% Ageplayer
I believe genuine authority is measured by composure, not volume, and genuine submission is built on trust rather than fantasy. I value disciplined minds, emotional intelligence, and people who understand that consistency is far more attractive than empty confidence. My time is intentional, my expectations are clear, and I invest my energy where mutual respect exists naturally. Fitness is part of my discipline, not my identity. My tattoos reflect chapters of my journey, while my character reflects the standards I choose to uphold every day. I appreciate meaningful conversation, self-awareness, and those who understand that every lasting dynamic begins with communication, accountability, and earned trust. If you're seeking authenticity, structure, and a connection grounded in integrity rather than performance, we'll likely have more to discuss. If you're searching for shortcuts, validation, or someone to entertain uncertainty, we are probably not aligned.
Just a nerdy, neurospicy, trans, demi, rope bunny looking for romance; and after trust is established, to get tied up. 🪢
Warning: Not interested in unsolicited 🍆 pics.
Aside from that, I enjoy running, reading, going out to eat, staying in with popcorn and a movie/tv show, also cheesy stuff like bowling and mini golf. 🏃♀️➡️
I’m a kung-fu black sash, a classically-trained singer (teaching herself to vocal fry scream), a pretty good cook, and prolly some other things that I forgot. lol ;)
As an Xer, I’m looking to start with traditional dating. So like, going out to eat, getting coffee, doing a cheesy activity… stuff like that. I once had to dump a guy who thought meeting me in a Walmart parking lot while he was in his sweats was a respectable first date. 👀
If you’re a kind, compassionate, trans-supportive, person who enjoys rigging, then I’m the girl for you. 💜
I’m looking for someone to discipline me. I want to them to punish me as they see fit. I have goals and obstacles that I need to overcome and I don’t have enough self discipline. I’d like a mentor and mentee like relationship. I’m comfortable with spankings and other punishments. Keep me accountable and on track. I’m not looking for sex or ***. Between my adhd and depression I need someone mentally strong to handle me. Can you handle me?
Eternally curious, BBW in central DE. Open-minded, conversant, sarcastic.
i will hold a conversation with anyone interesting, about anything that interests me. feel free to say hello.
I flirt for fun, for sport even. unless i specifically say otherwise, none of my flirty nonsense should be taken seriously.
speaking of fun …
interests … vanilla
- music (i love it all, please tell me about your favorite band/song/album/verse),
- crochet
- museums (especially odd or unique exhibits)
- long drives to nowhere
- learning
- helping others learn
- reading (though not like i used to for pleasure. tell me about your favorite author.)
- coloring (analog and digital)
- conversations about nothing and everything
i am my most happiest inside safe, sometimes rebellious, submission. i am, however, responsible for a lot and control a lot of things. The person who takes control of me has to help me see why they’re better at controlling me than I am.
i can be a jerk, but i’m kinda funny. 🤷🏽♀️.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
98% Rope bunny
95% Submissive
94% Brat
92% Voyeur
88% Little
88% Primal (Prey)
83% Degradee
71% Ageplayer
Bratty bbw goofball that’s learning new things in the community.
100% a sub and like to be restrained, ***d, spanked, and have rough sex. Enjoyed being tied up in ropes the one time I had it happen.
Not looking to be a third and ultimately looking for that one person to call ‘Sir’
yeah this is going to be about me as a person. I get it's a website based on fetishes but that means different things to different people.
✅ coffee = less gremlin
✅ ADHD (there will be times you question reality and feel the need to wrangle, be the supervision, or the accomplice)
✅ stones and bones
✅ spooky stuff
✅ most random playlist you've seen but lots of screamy music too
✅ introvert but I play an extrovert pretty well when I have to until the social battery is no more
✅ communication is important
✅ the more you respect me as a person the more disrespectful consensual things we can do
✅ ⭐ Demisexual and sapio sexual (you have to tickle my mind and heart before you tickle my clit)
✅ love languages: physical touch, Acts of service, shared experiences. yeah and if you haven't done the research on how they can translate to kink have fun with that rabbit hole
✅ books!
don't send unsolicited 🍆 picks, I'll be annoyed, I won't give the response you want, you'll get butt hurt... it's a whole thing 🙄🙄🙄
yes I have pictures. no they're not like that.
I'd say my adjectives are greeneyed, left handed, introverted, kindhearted, affectionate, sweet. I can be kinda shy at times but if can you break through the shyness then..... 😈! I just want to find someone like me that can keep up!
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